Today is the third day of All Hallows, the day of All Souls, remembering particularly the ancestors, and those we love who have died. My experience of grief has so often been grieving with people I love who have lost someone. So today I am thinking of Eli and of Peter, of Julie and Raymond, of Joyce and Elaine and Gerald, of Cory, of Lee, of Harold. And I am thinking of my grandparents, of Aunt Lois and Uncle Victor and Uncle Irvin, of Uncle John and Aunt Anna Lou, of Uncle Paul.
Today, for All Souls,
A Gratitude List for Ancestors and Loved Ones:
1. for Ellis Kreider, Jon’s father, gentle and twinkly, earnest and thoughtful
2. for Grandma, Marian Weaver–I still miss her
3. for Aunt Lizzie, who could tell you stories all day without a pause
4. for my blood ancestors and those of my children, for that marvelous branching and intertwining, like feathering tree roots going back and back
5. for the ancestors of this place, the people who walked these woods and hills, hunting and foraging, traveling, centuries ago
May your memories hold you.
(Oh, and Happy Birthday, Mockingbird! I missed it. Yesterday was the birthday of this blog. I began it last year as a place to put the poems that I write in response to Robert Brewer’s Poem-a-Day Challenge. I got caught up in the whole experience of the days of All Hallows this year, and missed yesterday’s poem. Tomorrow I will begin that process again. I may have to double up my poems for a couple days to catch up.)